Monday, November 30, 2009

Mengapa

Mengapa by Nicky Astria

Mengapa kau pergi
mengapa kau kecewakan
mengapa kau hancuri
mengapa kau menghinakan

Mengapa kau sakiti
mengapa kau melukakan
mengapa kau memberi
mengapa kau melupakan

Mengapa kau akhiri
mengapa kau memulakan
dengan getaran jiwa kukemukakan
pertanyaan

Tak ingin ku kau pergi
tak ingin ku dikecewakan
tak ingin cinta dinodai
tak ingin dihancurkan

Tak ingin ku disakiti
tak ingin ku dilukakan
tak ingin ku kau beri
bila kau melupakan

Tak ingin ku dikhiri
bila kau memulakan
dengan perasaan hampa
kumeminta jawaban


Chorus:
Di kananku cinta penuh bermadu
di kiriku racunmu
kalimah sakti yang mana untukku
dapat kau membuat pilihan
agar kita dapat bersama

Kau bisa membahagiakan menceriakan
kau bisa menggembirakan mempesonakan
aku ingin dicintaimu dan mencintai
aku ingin bila terjaga kau di sampingku selamanya

Semoga cinta bersemi
semoga cintamu kan dekat padaku
asmara kan memudar tanpa mengira waktu
bertahta di hatimu dan di hatiku

Sunday, November 29, 2009

Sleeping Partner?

Tahu...Ye..Yg dok sebelah tu malam2...Tapi boleh juga dlm business/ kereta. Dlm kereta selalunya org panggil co-pilot. What ever!

Okaylaah..Co-pilot yg mcam mana korang ni? Yg aktif menunjuk arah bak tourist guide atau sleeping partner aje?

Di musim2 perayaan ni memang biasalah si isteri menjadi co-pilot, sambil melayan anak2 ... Aku juga tak terkecuali. Tapi aku bukan co-pilot yg tahu jadi sleeping beauty je! (cheh..perasan beautiful :p).

Aku seriau nak tido sejak2 banyak sgt kes kemalangan...Nauzubillah. Memang seriau! Sejak 2-3 tahun lps aku memang tak pernah tido bila hubby drive! Lelap2 ayam adalah...Terlelap, tp biasanya terjaga baliklah bila brek ke ape ke.

Korang pulak mcmamana? Biar jer ke si pilot layan DJ atau jadi co-pilot yg aktif?

Thursday, November 26, 2009

Tentang Kamu


Ku Tak Bisa Menebak

Ku Tak Bisa Membaca

Tentang Kamu

Tentang Kamu



Kau Buat Ku Bertanya

Slalu Dalam Hatiku

Tentang Kamu

Tentang Kamu


Chorus:
Bagaimana Bila Akhirnya Ku Cinta Kau


Dari Kekuranganmu Hingga Lebihmu


Bagaimana Bila Semua Benar Terjadi


Mungkin Inilah Yang Terindah



Begitu Banyak Bintang

Seperti Pertanyaanku

Tentang Kamu

Tentang Kamu



** Sudah tangkap cinta dgn suara isteri Ashraff Sinclair- si cantik manis Bunga Cinta Lestari dan lagu2 nya, satu lagi Ingkar dan satu lagi duet bersama Ari Lasso- Aku & Dirimu

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Where Am I?



I'm lost! These few days after recoverd from ILI, i found myself a bit lost. No mood for routine works ie. working, cooking, entertaining loved ones and did includes blogging. Trying hard to find the route cause but just found a few that seems near to it!

1) Life is short..Dull lately. What have i achieved for the past 30 years and will achieve in 10 yrs coming?
2) Feel like doing something else despite of keep on waiting for somethings which are not yet coming (mcm buah tak gugur).
3) Challenge life of parenthood...Am i ready like other supermommies? (found myself not prepared enough like Fid, mommylyna, Yu Es, munirah- to name a few).

Is Your Child Gifted?

Signs of giftedness in a preschooler

Source: babycenter.com

Your 2- to 4-year-old may be gifted if he:

• Has a specific talent, such as artistic ability or an unusual facility for numbers. For example, children who draw unusually realistic pictures or who can manipulate numbers in their head may be gifted.

• Reaches developmental milestones well ahead of peers.

• Has advanced language development, such as an extensive vocabulary or the ability to speak in sentences much earlier than other children his age.

• Is relentlessly curious and never seems to stop asking questions.

• Is unusually active, though not hyperactive. While hyperactive children often have a short attention span, gifted children can concentrate on one task for long periods of time and are passionate about their interests.

• Has a vivid imagination. Gifted children often create a vast and intricate network of imaginary friends with whom they become very involved.

• Is able to memorize facts easily and can recall arcane information that he learns from television shows, movies, or books.

Other signs of giftedness may be a little harder to discern. By age 3 or 4, for example, some gifted children begin to realize that they are "different" from their peers. This can make them feel isolated and withdrawn; it may also make them likely targets for bullying.

They may begin to experience intense frustration because they can think more rapidly than they can express themselves, verbally or physically. If your child appears unusually angry or frustrated, you may want to consult a mental health professional.


Testing your preschooler for giftedness

Though you may want to know if your preschooler is gifted, most children don't need to be tested for giftedness before entering elementary school. However, consultations with a mental health professional may be appropriate if your preschooler appears to be unusually bored in school or shows any signs of emotional or social problems.

If your child is enrolled in preschool, speak to the teacher or school director to find out if the school is affiliated with any mental health professionals who specialize in working with gifted children. If your child is not in school or the school isn't being receptive to your concerns, ask your pediatrician to refer you to a child psychologist who conducts tests for giftedness. Keep in mind that that although private testing is often expensive (testing and follow-up consultation can run as high as $1,000), your insurance plan may cover the cost.

Children as young as 3 can be given IQ and ability tests, but experts believe that IQ test results obtained before the age of 5 are unstable — that is, if a child is retested, his scores can fluctuate significantly until this age. Years ago, children whose IQ scores were over 130 were considered gifted (the range for average intelligence is 85 to 115); today, however, IQ is one factor among many that need to be evaluated before a child is identified as gifted. Often parents and teachers will be asked to write their impressions of a child, and these subjective measures are considered along with test data.


Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Cikgu Bahasa?

Aku kan...huhuu, aku memang takleh pejam matalah kalau tgk ayat2 salah ejaan atau grammar litang pukang, tak kiralah BM ke BI. Mesti tak lari sedikit sebanyak aku nak mengedit....Serabut hotak aku nak evalutate kalau 'tak cantik'! Bab mcm ni susah nak mengomel ye tak? Habih2 rajin, aku editkan jerlah sekali....

Tapi kaan...Aku kena belajar evaluate paperwork/ report vendor/ staff aku/ budak prakitkal pada contents nya sahaja. Huuu, pening kepala tmbh extra 15-20minit kalau nak correct the typo and grammatical errors! Dari hati yg lembut, leh jadi cikgu yg garang.....Maaakkkkkkk....Malasnyee!

Monday, November 23, 2009

WHOOAAA

Mcmana tu nak sebut ye? WOW? WOOAA ?? WUUUUUUU ?? Ape2 lah...Sila buat exercise mulut ye ;) Emm, thanks for close friends and cousins who asked how am i doing lately since they've been missing my updates! Yeah....No scheduled posts for the past few days, which i normally do when i know my schedule for the week!

To be frank...Despite of office works, I'm not in mood to write.Yes, got a few stories to share but don't feel like sharing (and typing) about it!

Sunday, November 22, 2009

Got one...

Hahhaa....Remember previous entry? Tentu heran ke mana aku pergi slps tu ye lama x de post...Ermm, got my ME time, walaupun x spt yg sepatutnya! I was down with ILI (influenza like ilness) a.k.a flu + headache + dry cough. So Wednesday which was supposed to be my first day at ISO course being spent all alone at home! Hmm..asked hubby to send Aliah to PIL house that day so i can recover myself by that night because I still have to go to that course and present my part on Thursday morning. My staff? Hm...No need to talk about him lah!

Long for my me time till gaji and another 1-2 weekend since all coming weekends will be spent attending kenduri kahwin! Whuaa...............

Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Really Need One...

Rasanya dah lama x kuar and do Girls Thing sejak cuti raya...Kebanyakannya cuti bersama kuarga dan si kecik. Oohh, really need one!

Nak gi window2...Nak gi tgk wayang citer melayu ....Nak gi atur sales various dept....Nak cari brooch and tudung (lama sungguh aku tak gi Jln TAR - in fact tahun ni mcm tak turun langsung!).

TOLONG ! ! !

* Nie lah bahananya dok tangguh2 amik lesen memandu ....

Monday, November 16, 2009

Kalaulah Saat Itu Boleh Diulang Semula...

Aku nak dimake up lagi...

Tetiba rasa nak sgt 'ME' time dan kuar beronggeng gi makeup segala -Girls thing !

Thursday, November 12, 2009

Papadom


Well...mcm tak berapa kena je birthday mama tapi tgk cerita papa! Actually this is one of my request for my birthday today (TQVM for all the sms and FB wishes)....We watched the movie at GSC yesterday. Lmbt, slot dah tinggal 2 je sehari. Nasib sempat tgk!!

What i can say...MEMANG LAYAK FILEM NI MENANG BYK DI FFM! Garapan Afdlin Shauki tidak pernah menghampakan aku lagi setakat ini...Cukup rencahnya, unsur serius, kekeluargaan, kelakar dan sedih tu memang ada. Bab romantik, emm..ringan je (sbb ni bkn filem romantik pun!).

Pemilihan pelakon pun sesuai tetapi bawan watak oleh Scha,Farid Kamil, Liyana Jasmay dan Vanidah Imran adalah so-so sahaja...Norkhiriah dan Que Haidar memang meletops! Scha, tidak cukup kejam dlm filem ini kalau banding dgn watak Chika dlm Tari Tirana TV3. Farid Kamil, watak young playboy dan Liyana Jasmay si gadis sunti-manis-manja dan memang sinonim serta mungkin juga character mereka sendiri begitu. So tidak berbeza apa! Begitu juga si lembut-jelita-motherly Vanidah Imran...

Papadom actually not only about that India crunchy snacks..It is about a papa named Saadom who own nasi kandar business at Penang. Starting with gerai kecik celah bgn dan boria (sungguh kena dgn Penang dan nasi kandar) dan kesibukan Saadom serta isterinya Mun yg sarat mengandung...Pelanggannya pelbagai kaum, sungguh muhibbah dan 1 Malaysia apabila salah seorang pelanggan Cinanya melabur dlm business dan kemudian semakin majlulah si Saadom ini.

Dalam kesibukan mengembangkan businessnya, dia sering tidak sempat (bukanlah sengaja mengabai) melayan isteri dan anaknya yg baru lahir, Miasara (sedapnya nama).. Dari setahun ke setahun, dari satu birthday ke satu birthday hanya diuruskan oleh Mun. Hinggalah satu hari penting anaknya, menerima anugerah tetapi Saadom sibuk layan pelabur baru dari Dubai...Berlakulah pertengkaran yg meragut nyawa apabila Mun accident.

Sejak dari itu, tugas ibu dan bapa dipegang Saadom..Business nya diuruskan partner Cina dan Indianya yg setia lagi memahami. Saadom menjaga anaknya seperti kanak2 kecil hingga sering mengikut ke sekolah dan aktiviti2 remaja Mia. Mia merasakan hidupnya terkongkong lantas bertekad jika SPMnya bagus, dia ingin pergi jauh dari papanya utk menikmati kebebasan.

Saadom sukar menerima permintaan Mia, tetapi setelah dinasihati oleh roh isterinya Mun (watak roh ini kelakar dan fashionable lak tu) dia bersetuju membenarkan Mia menyambung pelajaran di KL dan tidak akan mengunjungi Mia...Mia pun masuk Uitm dan bekenalan dgn Sarah (Scha) seniornya serta hero Uitm, si Farid Kamil dan rakan sekelasnya yg poyo, si Que.

Dalam diam, Saadom minta kerja jadi tukang kebun Uitm dgn tujuan nak mengekori Mia.. Ke mana sahaja Mia pergi, Saadom memerhati dari jauh termasuklah ketika Mia di dalam kelas Balqish (Vanidah) dan dating dgn Farid Kamil...Babak dating tgk wayang dan dihantar balik ni sangat kelakar bila Saadom mengikut hingga ke panggung dan berkata Api! Api! kerana melihat Farid Kamil yg cuba mencabul Mia...hahaha!

Sehingga satu kejadian apabila Sarah mendapat tahu Saadom 'minat' pada Mia dan dendamnya serta cemburunya Sarah pd Mia yg merebut exnya si farid Kamil...Mia tertangkap Saadom. Tetapi bagusnya, Mia tidaklah marah membabi buta dan berdendam tetapi dia memahami keadaan yg Saadom terangkan. Tetapi malangnya, mereka ditangkap khalwat (gara2 ftinah Sarah) dan Saadom dituduh memcabul. Barulah semua terbongkar!

Filem ini berakhir dgn presentasi filem pendek tesis Mia kpd pensayarahnya dan filem pendeknya itu bercerita tentang Papa Dom nya.....Touching.

Betapa pun kita ingin menjaga dan mengawal anak kita, akan ada satu masa kita kena longgarkan tali kebebasan itu supaya dia dapat menikmati hidupnya dan belajar susah serta membuat kesalahan. Sbg ibu bapa, kita kena berani hadapi saat apabila anak kita susah, buat salah dan sentiasa bersama mereka utk tolong menunjukkan jalan dan membetulkan.
4.5 / 5 * !

Langkawi Day 4



Actually hari ni hari terakhir di sini...So takmau pegi mana2 dah. Lepak di bilik je dan packing! Flight kul 1.10, so takut terbabas! In fact, pg tu lps breakfast kami ronda2 lagi bergambar balik2 dah kul 10.30..Mandi2 dan packing, check out at 11.15.

These were some pictures taken at hotel lobby, airport Langkawi & KLIA (sementara tunggu PIL jemput).














Sunday, November 8, 2009

Langkawi Day 3

Hari membeli belah basically...
Well, x banyak pun yg aku aim..Hanya Visions shj. dan cokelat.







Petang...kami jln sekitar hotel dan Awana sahaja.







Awana Porto Malai










Petang kami dinner di Laksa Power, tepi laut dekat dgn airport tu...Sedappp !!










Tempat2 Cadangan (Recommended) di Langkawi:
1. Tempat makan (budget & sedap)
Area chenang - Restoran Hj Ramli (pagi, tghari & malam)
Area airport - Laksa Power (van bergerak) - ada laksa, pasembor,cendol pulut, mi rebus tapi kul 3.00 - 7.00 ptg je.
Area Kuah - Restoran sederet dgn bgn Ismail Group yg baru (sebelah kedai beg)

2. Tempat shopping
Area kuah - Ismail Group (pinggan mangkuk, periuk belanga, beg, coklat)
Area Ayer hangat - Idaman Suri (sama as above)
Area chenang - Deretan gerai murah (mcm Pdg Besar) - tshirt, kain batik, selipar pantai

3. Tempat 'bergambar' (lawatan) yg sesuai utk kanak2 bawah 3 tahun
Awana Porto Malai/ Port belakang Petronas - hala ke Cable Car
Birds of Paradise
Pantai Chenang atau Tanjung Rhu



Saturday, November 7, 2009

Langkawi Day 2

We had our light breakfast at room, Aliah with her slice of bread (High 5) and me, some biscuits cecah milo (bwk 3 in 1, mcm lah tade tea/coffee sachets at room - actually standby). Off we been picked up by the travel agent at 9.30 am to the boat jetty area TM Resort....Atas skit je dari hotel kami, sebelum sampai Awana Porto Malai.

Ooohh...Agak scary ye nak masuk ke boat yg bergoyang2 itu. Lagii scary bila boat speed dan melanggar ombak! Angin sgt kuat...I bet semua teringin nak tgk mukaku yg bersepai dgn tudung terbang kena tiup angin. Ohh, my God ! Aliah pula panik dan nak menggelupur masuk dlm hubby's hug bila boat tgh laju...Bayangkan kalutnya kami nak calm her down! Takut angin kuat tu terbangkan dia, takpun terjatuh dgn mak2 nya yg ringan ni ke dalam laut..Nauzubillah. Dia rimas dgn life jacket yg menutup muka dia sama tu!

Before departure..

ALIAH without 'A H '

Muka yg terbias dgn angin kuat!



GRRR................selebihnya tgk gmbr sajalah! Blogspot ni buat hal lak, penat aku mengarang....

Pulau Beras Basah

Anak..Bapak...



Fish massage at Tasik Dayang Bunting (new attraction)


Exhausted...Hungry...Eat what the hotel have!


Tips Island Hopping
1. Calm your toddlers during the journey! Emm..Can i say, better not to bring babies and toddlers (kesian budak, penat dan takut ombak kuat).
2. Survey various port/ tourist agents before book any because some of the place can get cheaper rate but do check the permit and insurance coverage.
3. Bring snacks and enough water (for drinks and pee pee if emergency - normally no toilets at island).
4. Wear sleeveless tshirt/ nipis2 and wear cap or sunglasses if the wheather very hot.
5. Follow all rules of safety, respect others and stay behave di tmpt org.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Langkawi Day 1

We arrived at 11.50 am...Thursday. Aliah slept during the 50 minutes journey! Lucky? Yeah, i guess so sbb takut gak dia panik and scream all out dgr bunyi dengung dsb. Her last journey with flight at her 13 months, last January to Kuching. She screamed 10 minutes before we reached KLIA! Huhh..Lega. Tu pun org pandang2!


She occupied her time the first 10 minutes...


And oh yaa! I didn't know either i had booked wrongly or what, but we got seat for Aliah too! Senang skit nak move around and stretch out bila Aliah dah baring......We did take the peanuts and juice for Aliah but cepat2 simpan dlm kocek dan minum. Hahah! Kacang woo...Nanti batuk, lagipun dia dah ada batuk skit2!


Pastu.....Zzzz.........Lega


Langkawi was in good whether walaupun org kereta sewa cakap ptg dan mlm selalu hujan.... Managed to have our lunch (saki baki lauk) di area Chenang. Kul 1.30 dah habis! Ermm..We checked in first at Federal Villa. This was my first time staying at 'budget hotel' (3 stars below). Federal Villa is 3 stars hotel managed by Holiday Villa group. Actually i booked under government resort so i only paid Rm77.00(deluxe) per night! Wuhoo...No breakfast but i considered okay, tak susah pun nak cari mkn area Chenang.

Kenapa dok budget hotel? 1) Of course sbb nak budget 2) To give a try 3) Sbb salah satu misi nak kaya (hahhaa....billionaire singapore dok hotel biasa and flight class biasa je bila bercuti).

Huhhuu...Abaikan sbb2 itu, mcm ntah hape2 kan??!!

Hotel ni okay....Kami dpt ground floor. Walaupun tak mengadap laut direct, tp dari bilik kami mmg leh nmpk pokok kelapa dan laut jugak! Hahhaa...Cuma spoil bilik ini, tiada kipas tmbhan dan aircondnya tiada remote! Bila sejuk, sgt sejuk dan asyik kena bangun off sendiri.

Ni aktiviti ptg kami...







After Maghrib turun Kuah survey tmpt nak beli pinggan :p Cari tmpt makan x jumpa (or byk dah tutup at 8 pm?)! So end up, makan KFC shj....Alhamdulillah, kenyang jugak.



Esok nak naik bot-Island Hopping! Yeay..........

Tips Flying With Babies/ toddlers:
1. Try occupy them with their favorite toys or books to avoid them from panic with loud humming sound.
2. Breastfeed/ feed them or try make them yawn to avoid them uncomfortable.
3. Try to get flight schedule on their nap time (this can prevent them from being cranky during the journey).

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Lama Dah...

Lama dah tak menjawab tag...Hahah, hutang dgn yaya dulu utk Tag Bergambar pun dah buat2 lupa! Huhh...Jawab yg simple gini, bolehlah! Sementara nak jana mood....memblog.

Bila kali terakhir anda cuci toilet? 2 minggu sudah (sbb gilir dgn hubby daa..kalau hubby dah buat, aku buat jgk..buat bodo jerlah!)

Pencuci apa yg anda guna? Zip

Dalam 1 minggu berapa kali anda mop lantai? 1 minggu...tade sekali..2 minggu/ 3 minggu sekali bergantung pd hubby (unless ada emergency mcm tumpah mkn berkuah ke, apa2 ke yg teruk terus mop satu rumah!)

Apa tugasan anda sebelum menjelang malam? Makan, mandi, makan-mandikan Aliah.

Apa menu hidangan makan malam anda yg paling simple? Maggie..Cuma tambah air je! :p ATAU 2 minit memasak...hahahha.

Minuman yg anda buat setiap pagi? Milo/ nescafe on weekend..Weekdays, layan sendiri apa ada di pantri opis!

Sebelum tido apa yg anda lakukan? Menyusukan Aliah..Jika terbangun, iron baju dan prepare rencah utk masak esok.

Kalau ada potluck esok, malam dah start memasak. Menu biasa: Mi kari/ spaghetti


Kena tag 8 bloggers :
1. Afzanhanim
2. Eza
3. Sarah
4. Cik Nuaq
5. Fid
6. Tinie
7. Azlina
8. Isabelle


Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Bali..........Malaysia


Tak sangka kami sampai lagi utk kali ke3 dlm tempoh 5 tahun! In fact, aku kali ke4 dlm 5 tahun.. 1st year 2005. 2nd year 2006 dgn PIL, 2009 (twice!) July on office matters and recently, with our new edition of family members! Hahhaa...

Kami baru balik dari sini.......................





Dapat agak tak di mana?




Gambar ini?


Hohooo.............Sahih hangpa ni pi bercuti pulau2 yg luar negara ja kan??!! Haaahhha...Ini lah Bali, Malaysia.






Seronok jugak.......Tapi panas, sungguh itu yg kutak tahan. Dan juga aircond yg kuat di bilik, no remote! Chisss...............

Cerita lanjut...Next entry!